第20章 生活的忠告

make a phone call smile when you pick up the phone，because someone feel it！

    无论什么时候打电话，摘起话筒的时候请微笑，因为对方能感觉到！

    Marry a person who likes talking；because when you get old，you‘ll find that chatting to be a great advantage；找一个你爱聊的人结婚；因为年纪大了后，你会发觉喜欢聊天是一个人最大的优点；Find time for yourself.

    找点时间，单独呆会儿；

    Life will change what you are but not who you are；欣然接受改变，但不要摒弃你的个人理念；Remember that silence is golden；记住：沉默是金；Read more books and watch less television；多看点书，少看点电视；Live a noble and honest life.Reviving past times in your old age will help you to enjoy your life again；过一种高尚而诚实的生活。当你年老时回想起过去，你就能再一次享受人生。

    Trust God，but don’t forget to lock the door；相信上帝，但是别忘了锁门；The harmonizing atmosphere of a family is valuable；家庭的融洽氛围是难能可贵的；Try your best to let family harmony flow smoothly；尽你的能力让家平顺和谐；When you quarrel with a close friend，talk about the main dish，don‘t quibble over the appetizers；当你和你的亲近的少吵嘴时候，试着就事论事，不要扯出那些陈芝麻、烂谷子的事；You cannot hold onto yesterday；不要摆脱不了昨天；Figure out the meaning of someone’s words；多注意言下之意；Share your knowledge to continue a timeless tradition；和别人分享你的知识，那才是永恒之道；Treat our earth in a friendly way，don‘t fool around with mother nature；善待我们的地球，不要愚弄自然母亲；Do the thing you should do；做自己该做的事；Don’t trust a lover who kisses you without closing their eyes；不要相信接吻时从不闭眼的伴侣；Go to a place you‘ve never been to every year.

    每年至少去一个你从没去过的地方。

    If you earn much money，the best way to spend it is on charitable deeds while you are alive；如果你赚了很多钱，在活着的时候多行善事，这是你能得到的最好回报；Remember，not all the best harvest is luck；记住有时候，不是最好的收获也是一种好运；Understand rules completely and change them reasonably；深刻理解所有的规则，合理地更新他们；Remember，the best love is to love others unconditionally rather than make demands on them；记住，最好的爱存在于对别人的爱胜于对别人的索求这上；Comment on the success you have attained by looking in the past at the target you wanted to achieve most；回头看看你发誓取得的目标，然后评价你到底有多成功；In love and cooking，you must give100％effort...but expect little appreciation；无论是烹饪不是爱情，都用百分之百的负责态度对待，但是不要乞求太多的回报。（未完待续）