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addition to giving the woman three or five thousand yuan, the man only needs to prepare one or two new houses and doesn't care about anything else. If the man's family is poor and there is no dowry for the woman, the woman will also bring all the daily necessities.

    on the day before marriage, the man must pay a gift to the woman. the gifts include: half or one pig, chicken, clothes or fabrics, shoes and socks of the woman's parents, brothers and sisters. All things should be put in place. A big rack should be used to carry them to the woman, so that the woman's onlookers can know what's ing at a glance. If the man's family condition is not good, he will borrow something to put on it to save face, because all the things that went through the ceremony, except for the food, returned to the man the next day.

    the woman should prepare as follows

    put red packets in the quilt, usually two packets, each of which is 40 cents for the bed maker. the big wooden box is full of fruit, peanuts, sweet potato chips, eggs, candy biscuits, and clothes, shoes and socks when you see the man's parents, brothers and sisters in the man's side. In addition, the parents also need to give the daughter some box money (hundreds to thousands depending on the conditions). because after marrying the man, the mother-in-law will open the box the next day, and people in the village will e around to see the excitement, the purpose is to see if the woman has given enough money for the container.

    on the day before marriage, the woman will notify the man how many people will e to lift things the next day. Generally, eight or more men are required because the woman needs to carry everything to the man, and the man's room only needs to be prepared with an empty house. the next morning, a wedding procession was arranged for the man to go to the woman's house to wele her. the men had to go, including the groom, two brides (women), five to six gongs and cobalt teams, and people carrying things. they all went to the woman's house to have breakfast together, blowing and playing. After dinner, the woman sent off the wedding, with one man and two women seeing off the bride. the procession carrying things took a step first, and then the groom and bride followed with umbrellas. Regardless of the weather, each person had an umbrella, blowing and beating all the way to the man for lunch.

    After dinner, the wedding scene is also the most lively scene during marriage. the purpose is to help the groom and bride eliminate the feeling of shyness. Various programs try to make their body and skin contact, such as mouth to mouth eating dates, two people lighting firecrackers, kittens fishing, and ash picking. the more tricks, the better. No matter how big or small, they can make as much noise as they want. After the 1980s, the habit of making wedding scenes gradually changed to watching movies, videos, and singing.

    conclusion: marriage in that era was the simplest, especially for office workers and workers who ate the national food, let alone worry about anything. they had free love, and when they got married, their unit had a share of the house. the unit leaders would personally hold the wedding for the young couple, and after marriage, the young couple slowly made some furniture. Unlike now, houses must be bought by themselves, and some people would bee property slaves for a lifetime. that era was truly socialist!

    Later, with the development of society and the improvement of material living standards, betrothal gifts emerged, starting with three major items: bicycles, watches, and sewing machines. Later, it developed into four major items, five major items, and so on, until now, I won't say much about it.